- Jun 24, 2011 – 3:05pm
Hi Nancy,
We spoke briefly a few days ago on IM. I would love to talk again and possibly meet. Look forward to getting to know you.Ted
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Jun 24, 2011 – 7:03pm
Hi Ted,I am all for the in person meeting, email/phone can be a bit deceptive (em because you can interpret things how you like and phone because some people have great phone skills or just don’t – either way, I don’t think either is a great way to get to know a person). Wow, that was a long sentence.Nancy
- Jun 24, 2011 – 7:07pm
OK Nancy. I agree. - Jun 24, 2011 – 7:33pm
I may be in NYC mon. if that works for you… - Jun 24, 2011 – 7:35pm
I am sorry it doesn’t. I also decided to not meet anyone from OK C. I even put it in my profile. I cant wrap my head around this type of contrived meeting. - Jun 24, 2011 – 7:41pm
Ok, please remember you were the one who suggested possibly meeting. I find your response really odd.“Hi Nancy,
We spoke briefly a few days ago on IM. I would love to talk again and possibly meet. Look forward to getting to know you.
Ted” - Jun 24, 2011 – 7:45pm
I know. I take full responsibility. And at the time I meant it. But the reality of it is, I cant do it. I can not meet anyone from a dating site. It’s just not in me. I apologize for the mixed message. And for wasting your time. - Just now!
k good luck.
Somehow Valentine’s Day didn’t work out exactly the way Nancy had planned…
Jun 102011
I just want to be clear here. This is not me. I don’t love cats. In fact I am allergic to cats. I do, on the other hand, love this video. If this woman finds a sane date I am going to try her approach. Because, I love dogs. I really love dogs. I also really love candy. I love dogs and candy and coffee. Yup, that’s all I need. Dogs, candy and coffee but not cats.
May 302011
Nancy is dating other people and not discussing it with Mr. B and not liking any of where she’s at.
Nancy has a non-Mr-B date that also isn’t exactly what she’s looking for:
Nancy and I have a session in which she clarifies why she’s been thinking of ending it with Mr. B – and also why not:
I try to dig deeper into why Nancy’s still staying with Mr. B:
I then give Nancy to think about three questions to determine whether or not to stay with Mr. B – or anyone – or dump him. There nothing like asking clear questions and writing down the answers to clear away the clutter:
Apr 272011
Nancy gets frustrated with the state of her relationship and tries to figure out what she’s going to do about it.
Mr. B both pushes Nancy away and says he misses her – a tactic which seems to be working because Nancy’s not so into the whole committment thing either.
Nancy gets blown off for New Year’s – and clarifies the mystery of why there haven’t been any Mr. B posts in awhile.
Nancy experiences first-hand the reason I recommend online daters skip the phone/email yammering and just get right to the date.
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